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Oct 04, 2009

Is this listening?

The opposite of Talking is not Listening.

The opposite of Talking is WAITING...

Posted by Jay Parkhe on Oct 04, 2009 at 05:22 PM in # 4 Things - Listen, Speak, Read, Write, 1 Laughter is the Best Medicine, 2 Humour - Make Fun Not War, L.O.L. |

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